Summer is the favorite time of the year for many – if not most people. It’s a time when people are intrinsically wont to get out of their comfort zones and do something exciting. Naturally, due to how hot it can get – we’re tempted to wear less clothes and show more skin. And this is something that can instantly arouse the people that see us. However, there are side-effects to living life in summer. One of them is how to play things out in bed.
The reason as to why this may be a problem is that it can get so hot that it can outright become uncomfortable to touch another person’s skin. Sure, you may have a cooler turned on in the room – but it can detract from the atmosphere as it can get too loud. So, what can you do in order to cool things off but still maintain the heat of the atmosphere?
The first thing that you can do is practice positions that won’t involve full skin-to-skin touching. Do you know of one such position that’s also very hot? Doggy style. It has the benefit of being one of the sexiest sex positions while still keeping the touching to a bare minimum. Try it with your sex partner and you will love it.
But you don’t even need to have penetrative sex in order to still have some fun. You can do masturbation cycles where you’re only allowed to use your hands and fingers. This element of restraint can add another layer of excitement to the equation. That being said, the two of you will also get to learn how to please your partner better.
Public sex is not always out of the equation, too. Of course, you need to be mindful that there may be laws where you live that forbid people to have public sex. But if you can keep things quiet and on the down-low – then you may experience the best sex you’ve ever had. And one of the best parts about it is that you can benefit from the gentle breeze of the summer nights.
You can use sex toys made of steel. Most people use conventional plastic and silicone sex toys. The added benefit of steel sex toys is that you can cool them off – by literally putting them in the fridge. Of course, many people won’t really enjoy putting sex toys where they put the food. But if you can make a small compartment for the sex toys, then you will be able to use them for whenever you may need them.
So, now you’re armed with a few methods that you can use in order to cool off but still maintain things hot. There are many other ideas that you can come up with if you give it some thought. We hope that you will get to enjoy the summers like you never had before – despite the potential problem of the days being overly hot.